Homily - Sunday May 3, 2020 Follow His Voice

Homily - Sunday 

May 3, 2020 

Follow His Voice

John 10 1-10 (Readings) "I did not come to abolish the law"

Deacon David Lewis

Saint Charles Catholic Church, Imperial Beach / San Diego, CA

(Recorded for online Mass during pandemic restrictions) 

Today we celebrate the Fourth Sunday of Easter.  It is also our seventh Sunday since the pandemic restrictions forced us to stop attending Mass at Church. I know it is a little late in the game, but I encourage as you experience Mass at home, to participate in the Mass as if you were in church: prepare yourself, change out of your sweatpants or pajamas, take a shower, fast for an hour before hand, put away the snacks and drinks, and participate fully, kneel, stand, and sit as if you were in a pew at church. I also encourage you invite your family to attend Mass together, even in this virtual manner that we find ourselves celebrating in.

The past several weeks have given many of us great opportunity to spend time together with and to reunite with our families, some of you have struggled with new math and involving yourself more in your child’s education than ever before. Some of you have used your time to catch up on all of the shows you have been wanting to get current on. Others of you have gone the extra mile, and caught up on all of those shows and even more that you didn’t even know existed prior to the pandemic. We have added to our vocabulary many words and phrases, Covid-19, corona, aerosol and droplets, stimulus, shelter-in-place, social distancing and flattening the curve. Some of you have gotten quite adept at working from home, mastering Zoom, and other remote meeting solutions.

But for some, these last few weeks have been a struggle. Many of our parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents have sat alone at home or in care facilities in retreat from a virus that likely would take advantage of their vulnerabilities if they are exposed, and so they remain isolated, waiting to be reunited with friends and family when the risk is lowered.  Some have lost loved ones, and not been able to mourn in the usual way. Others have fought for their life in a battle with the Corona Virus, while yet others are seeing the end of their savings as the financial impacts of being out of work runs its course.

It has been a great test of our society. It has provided a great opportunity to revisit the things that are important to us. Suddenly, the celebrities, actors, influencers, and sports stars are no longer the essential things in our lives. Suddenly our family, our friends, and neighbors have become a lifeline, as things like toilet paper take the top of the list of things that are important.  For others perhaps their next meal.

I encourage those of you that have escaped the bulk of the impact of the last few weeks to reach out to your parents, your siblings, your cousins, your neighbors, long time friends, and co-workers and make sure they are doing ok, and help them however it is possible. Those of you that can, continue to help, volunteer at the food pantries, donate blood, run those sewing machines making masks for those that need them. Please don’t come out of this without taking advantage of the rare opportunities to learn something new, build something long in the making, or mend something long in need of repair. Continue to practice patience with those around you, continue to pray to God as he offers you hope during this time of what for many is darkness, despair, and stress.

Don’t let distractions be like thieves that jump over the wall, stealing this valuable time we have with each other. Focus on the gate, on God, focus on faith, hope, and love, give focus to those things essential: friends, family, and faith. Let us remain vigilant of those things that steal from us, and look for those things that feed us. And most of all let us not lose focus on Jesus as he calls our name so that we may follow him more closely.

Homily - Sunday February 16, 2020 The Spirit of the Law

Homily - Sunday 

February 16, 2020 

The Spirit of the Law

Matthew 5:17-37 (Readings) "I did not come to abolish the law"

Deacon David Lewis

Saint Charles Catholic Church, Imperial Beach / San Diego, CA

I was a bit of a smart Alek when I was a kid. I remember once I was in one of my smart-aleky moods, and was taking things quite literally. So as we sat at dinner and my sister asked to pass the butter, well, you probably guessed it, I passed the butter. As it went flying from my side of the table to hers it stopped abruptly as the butter collide with her glass of milk, and as the milk flew through the air onto my sister you can imagine she was not happy with me. I told her “You said PASS the butter”

Life before Jesus the rules were quite literal, You worship God, you don’t take the Lord’s name in vain, you keep holy the sabbath, you honor your parents, don’t kill anyone, don’t commit adultery, don’t steal and don’t bear false witness against others.

From these ten commandments from God, revealed to our ancestors by Moses, most of the laws of their day were created. As time went on the laws and how to live by them got more and more specific, and more and numerous and complicated.

They got to the point that in Luke’s Gospel we hear of Jesus having dinner with the Pharisees, and asking them if it is lawful to heal the man with dropsy on the Sabbath and not getting a reply, Jesus proceed to heal the man and send him on his way, Jesus then responds of which of you having an ox that fell into a ditch wouldn’t pull him out on the Sabbath. Matthew 12 and Mark 2 have similar stories of the disciples walking through the grain, and ate some of the grains, and when they were accused of working, and Jesus rebuked the accusers with the story of how David went into the temple and fed the bread offering to his companions.

These are just two examples of how the law in the day’s of Jesus was held to such high regard as to defy the spirit of the law.

When Jesus came for us, he went one step further, he raised the bar on following the laws. He teaches  us in today’s Gospel that we have to be as righteous as the pharisees and the scribes.  But then he turns that on it’s head… he doesn’t say you have to follow those laws, PLUS you also this and this and this, laying down more laws… no… he doesn’t add anymore laws at all, but instead tells us that we have to follow the spirit of the law…

The law was you shall not kill, But Jesus says you shouldn’t even be angry with brother.

The law says Don’t commit adultery, but Jesus makes it clear that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

And when the law said Do not take false oath, but make the Lord all that you vow, Jesus said do not save your honesty for when you make a vow, but let your no mean no and your yes mean yes.

We have had a lot of funerals recently, and over the years, having heard many eulogies at the funeral vigils, I have heard about the good side of many of our parishioners that have gone before us. Many were loving, good mothers and fathers, great examples to their children, some were good cooks, quite a few lived joyfully, many had a great sense of humor, some were strong, some comforting, caring and generous, and still many also lived their lives faithfully. But the one word that I love to hear in a eulogy about someone, is that they had great character, that they had integrity. Integrity to me is that one word that sums up so many of the positive qualities of living that Jesus calls us to. A person of integrity can be trusted, and is someone that we can call upon in our time of need. No one gets up at eulogy and says of the dead, he was good at following the rules, he obeyed every law… it just isn’t that likely to be true first, but also we would know that while most of us try to obey the laws, there are times that require us to set aside the law, and follow the spirit of the law. If for example your wife is pregnant and you are speeding on the freeway in order to get her to the hospital it could be considered OK to speed, or if your lost in the woods in the middle of the winter and come across a cabin and break in to it seeking shelter, it could be considered OK that you broke in. There are extraordinary times in our lives when the rules need to be broken, but they are the extraordinary, the outside of the ordinary moments when the rules don’t need to be followed.

But today’s Gospel isn’t so much saying forget about the laws, but elevate them. Live your life not meeting the minimum requirements of the rules and laws, but live your lives mimicking the example of Christ in all you do. Love your neighbor and love God with your every action, and even with your thoughts. When a need is seen in front of you act on it. When someone is in pain comfort them. When someone is hungry feed them. When someone is lonely visit them. When see a need fill it.

There is a great show on Facebook, starring Mike Rowe formerly of Dirty Jobs, it is called Returning the Favor. They go around the US looking for “Better than average do-gooders, doing good things for others”, and then they reward them. The people they find are the masters of filling a need, the man that builds free beds for kids that don’t have a bed of their own. The woman that makes hot meals for first responders stuck on scene, serving those in need at forest fires, house fires, and other catastrophes. The mechanic that fixes cars for free for those that can’t afford to fix their car but also, can’t afford to be without that car. The people that have created retreats for our veterans so that they can have a place to visit as a family that is friendly to their wheelchair. Or the lady that collects bras to give to woman that need a little support. Or the woman right here in Chula Vista that has a little room in the back of her hair salon where she outfits women fighting cancer with free wigs.

They don’t do it because the law says they have to, they do it out of kindness, they do it because they want to live their lives to the fullest, helping others along the way. They do it in the spirit of the law of loving your neighbor and loving God.

Homily Sunday May 19, 2019 "Love One Another" - Love Anyway

Homily - Sunday 

May 19, 2019 

Love Anyway

John 13:31-33A, 34-35 (Readings) "Love One Another"

Deacon David Lewis

Saint Charles Catholic Church, Imperial Beach / San Diego, CA

This week I read a story online about people sharing their most intimate moment with a stranger. ( Link to story )

There was story of a Houston Kinkos employee that helped an elderly women scan and post a photo of her missing son online in the wake of Katrina. Two months later, that same woman came back into the store and introduced her son to the clerk, they had a good hug and cry.

Another man described being next to a middle aged woman on a flight who appeared quite scared, he reached over and held her hand during takeoff and landing, and during the slight turbulence that they experienced during the flight.

Another woman walked into a women’s restroom to find an elderly man apologizing for his presence as he helped his disabled wife into a stall, the man accepted the woman’s offer to help and being a mother,  things of this nature no longer phased her. She helped the woman, cleaned her up, and called the man back into the room. She mentioned how much the love of that couple was now a goal in her life.

The last one I will share was a young man that saw a girl at the bus stop being harassed by a man being less than a gentleman. The helpful young man approached the girl as if they were old friends, and she caught on right away and played along. They walked away from the hassling guy, but he lingered. They continued to share a wonderful conversation together as they kept moving away from the man, and once the bus arrived, they said good-bye as she got on, and the pestering man wondered off.

I mention these stories today, because they are all small acts of love. All, small acts of love, that most of us here could have done at some point in our lives, had we been put in the right place at the right time.

In today’s Gospel we hear Jesus give a new commandment… “Love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another. This is how all will know you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

Jesus had just demonstrated how to humble one’s self and serve others as he washed the disciple’s feet just moments before this new commandment was issued. He had also just made the others aware that there was one among them that did not have love on his heart and was about to betray Jesus.

So I imagine the point Jesus was making would be fairly clear: You can humble yourself and serve others like Jesus did when washing the Apostle’s feet, or fall victim to the lies of Satan, and turn your back on Jesus like Judas would do.

Jesus spoke about, and also DID many more acts of love that we can use as examples: The two men that carried the paralyzed man through the roof top, bringing him before Jesus to heal him, showing us that we can love by brining people to Jesus. The parable of the Good Samaritan, taught us to not only help others, but to go the extra mile. The woman at the well who had many husbands, felt the love of Christ. The wedding couple at Cana who were spared the embarrassment of running out of wine for their guest, got to not only see Jesus’ loving compassion, but his first miracle, and the parable of the prodigal son, taught us not only that God will welcome us back into his loving embrace, but that we can welcome those who have wandered away from us back into our lives.

Are we willing to live this commandment to its fullest, to love one another? Are we willing to offer love to strangers we don’t even know? Are we willing to go the extra mile, and clean the bottom of a disabled woman we’ve never met? Or simply comfort a stranger next to us by holding hands?

Offering Love is often sacrificial, we have to give of ourselves, our time, our treasure, or even utilize our talent, but often what stands in our way is pride, fear, doubt, and laziness. Too proud to humble ourselves in front of our friends, family, and co-workers, love anyway. Fearful that we will be made fun of, or that our offer to help will be rejected, love anyway. Doubt, that we can make a difference, love anyway. Laziness, sometimes love takes effort, love anyway.

We don’t need to be nailed on a cross, to love like Jesus loved, we don’t even have to be able to miraculously heal people, multiply loaves, or make water into wine. We simply need to make ourselves present to others. The stories I mentioned were all “The most intimate encounter they have had with a stranger.” And there were many more in that article. I encourage each of you to seek opportunities where someone might write a post about an encounter where you were a stranger that offered love, a moment when you dropped what you were in the middle of and acted on a perceived need. Not because it will pay well, not because it will make you feel good, but simply because Jesus tells us: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another.”

Homily Sunday May 12, 2019 Mom's are Good Shepherds Too

Homily - Sunday 

May 12, 2019 

Mom's are Good Shepherds Too

John 10:27-30 (Readings) "My Sheep Hear My Voice.".

Deacon David Lewis

Saint Charles Catholic Church, Imperial Beach / San Diego, CA

Today is good shepherd Sunday. The Good Shepherd is one of the earliest images of Christ, Jesus, there with the lamb over his shoulders and a shepherd’s hook in his hand.  It symbolizes the care that God has for us, that when things are difficult we have a God willing to help. That when we are unable to carry ourselves, we have a God willing to load us on to his shoulders and carry us. When we are down he lifts us up.

But also it paints a picture of us, that we are sheep, that we are part of a flock, a flock that is led by a shepherd. A shepherd that ultimately wants the best for us. A flock that if it follows the shepherd’s direction will come to realize its’ best life.

I grew up in a house of 6 kids, a small flock if you will, a very traditional household, where Mom stayed at home, and Dad went off and  worked a 9-5 Monday through Friday. Most of the day-to-day raising of us children was led by my Mom, what meals we ate, what clothes we wore, our schedule for the day, and the household rules, and of course the discipline, were all mandated by my mom. When we needed to go grocery shopping, Mom would often take us along. And as you could imagine with six of us, one or two of the flock would get distracted by the cereal aisle, or be drawn to the toy section, or one of us  inadvertently mistake a jacket similar to my mothers and followed after it thinking it was Mom. And When that happened Mom would often call out for us, and we knew right away it was her. We knew her voice apart all the other moms out there, you could say we know the voice of our shepherd. It was the same voice we heard when she called us for dinner each night, it was the same voice she guided us through our homework with, it was the same voice she scolded us with when we broke the rules. It was the same voice she comforted us with.

I would like to say that mom knew our voice equally well, but unfortunately I don’t know if she did; we were all taught that if we got lost, and called out “Mom” a couple times and got no response, the next call would be “Alice!” that always got my mom’s attention, because she knew it wasn’t the pestering  use of “Mom” asking her to get the box of sugary cereal she had already said no to ten times, or one of us fighting for her attention to ask for our favorite soda, calling by her first name meant we were in trouble.

 I imagine a shepherd, as he wanders through the countryside guiding his flock through the green pastures gets to know his sheep as well as his sheep get to know him. It is a relationship built by spending time together, a trust built as the shepherd continues to guide them from one meal to the next, as the shepherd protects them from predators, and as the sheep’s cries for help are heard and answered.

God is indeed a good shepherd. He knows us, but how are we doing on our end of things? Are we hearing his voice? Do we listen for God’s voice in prayer? Do we listen for His voice in scripture?

If it’s a been a while since you sat with the scripture outside of Mass, or if you have never done it at all, I challenge you to go home this week, find a Bible, dust it off, find a quiet corner in your home, turn off your cel phone, and then flip towards the back of the bible and find one of the Gospels: Mathew, Mark, Luke, or John, and pick a paragraph or two to read. Imagine yourself in that scripture, imagine you are one of the characters, imagine yourself there with Jesus. Then give your self a few moments to reflect, listening for the voice of God in that silence.

If your prayer life is weak I encourage you to come on Friday during adoration, or visit one of the parishes with perpetual 24 hour adoration, like the small chapel next to the parish office at Precious Blood, it’s just on Fourth Ave near Palomar in Chula Vista. Sit in front of Jesus and pray for him to speak to you… and listen.

But with today being Mother’s day, I also encourage you to go home, for those of you whose Mom’s are still with us, listen to her voice… visit her, call her, talk to her… if you have never asked her about her story I encourage you to get to know your Mom better today. For those of you who are mothers I encourage you to speak to your flock, share the stories of your childhood, what it was like for you, let you children, and grandchildren if you are so blessed, know how it was for you “back in the day” Share the lessons you’ve learned,  the friend’s you’ve made, and the love you’ve witnessed.

Let us all remember the many times that out Mother’s have lifted us, and carried us during our times of need. The ways the they led us to make our lives better, the ways they showed us their love. But let us remember also our God who is our Good Shepherd.

Homily Sunday November 18, 2018 Seasons

Homily - Sunday 

November 18, 2018 

Seasons

Mark 13:24-32  (Readings) The return of Jesus.

Deacon David Lewis

Saint Charles Catholic Church, Imperial Beach / San Diego, CA

For years I tried to time my visits back home to New York to be during the summer, with dreams of fishing and camping, and picnicking in the warm NY summer air. Unfortunately, it always seemed that there was a need to schedule the visit to the colder months of the year. I went home for Christmas when my Mom’s health took a turn nearly a decade ago and we thought we were going to lose her, she came around and ended up doing much better. But I remember that it snowed and we had a picturesque white Christmas that year.  I returned again a couple of years later for my nephew’s wedding, it was on the day after Christmas, and it snowed that year too. Again, a couple of years later I was encouraged to come home for a family reunion to surprise my parents for Thanksgiving… and it snowed then too, it was looking like it was going to snow every time I went home to New York but a few years ago I was finally able to make it out for a late summer visit and spend some time fishing with my little brother and Dad, and spend time camping with my mom playing her favorite game: Rummicube, just like we did as kids, Finally this time it didn’t snow. The following summer Dad’s cancer came back and I was able to go home and see him one last time while he was still semi-active, while he wasn’t anywhere near 100%, at least it didn’t snow. This spring, in the end of April we returned for his funeral, and guess what… it snowed in April too, Thanksgiving and Christmas, snow is expected, but Easter too?!?! It seemed the curse was back… when Dave visits Rochester, expect snow.

For those of you that have never left San Diego, elsewhere there is a phenomenon known as seasons, where summer turns to autumn and the leaves change color and fall to the ground, this is followed by a season that is colder yet, where this white stuff called snow, falls out of the sky, in seemingly never ending amounts, and then just when you think you can’t handle the cold, and the snow anymore, the sun once again makes a visit through the clouds, and spring begins, and eventually summer returns.

Just as most of the world goes through seasons every year, so does the Church. As we celebrate Thanksgiving and the rest of the country is experiencing the beginning of winter, the Church will be getting ready for the coming of Christ, at least the anniversary of the coming of Christ as baby Jesus that we celebrate at Christmas. The new liturgical year in the Church will be coming soon, at the beginning of Advent, to prepare for that coming of Christ. But today’s Gospel speaks of another coming of Christ when he returns again. One that we don’t prepare for with Advent, but we prepare for every day of our lives, for we do not know the hour of His return.

Daily we struggle with the choices not only between obvious right and wrong, the black and white choices, but with the many grey ones as well. We make choices between two things both that have goodness, sometimes these are easy unnoticed choices, other times they are life changing difficult decisions. This process of decision making requires we have a fully formed conscience, our moral character, that our decisions are shaped by what pleases God, not by what is most pleasing to our senses, or what makes it easiest for us. Sometime these decisions are tough, and require much thought and prayer.

But ultimately it is our decision to love God by doing what we discern God loves, or wants, by doing what we believe will best please God. If we try to live our life pleasing God when he comes to judge the living and the dead, he will look favorably on us.

All of us will undoubtedly make bad decisions, sometimes we will make decisions not based on our love for God, but on other temptations, and for those decisions, we need to repent, and ask God for his forgiveness in the Sacrament of Reconciliation, where we are restored to God’s favor.

It is how we prepare ourselves for the coming Christ and our final judgement. Because unlike the seasons of the year, that come with a cycle, and some reasonable expectation of when they will occur, we do not know when Christ will come again.

But that is not the only way we prepare for the coming of the Lord. We also want the Lord to recognize us when he comes, to know us. If we never make him present in our lives, if we never pray, if we never make Christ visible to others how will he recognize us?

Thanksgiving is a time of year that serves to give us an opportunity to reflect on the many graces we have been given. A time to thank God for the roof over our head, the food on our table, the family and friends that have gathered with us. It can also be a good time to recognize the abundance of graces God has given us: whether you won the Billion dollar Powerball, or you realize that you have more clothes than you can wear, or more food than you need, or a walk-in closet large enough to house a family… Thanksgiving can be a time to re-examine our needs, and share our surplus. Especially our surplus of Love which is giving by God at no cost to us so that we may pass that love on to others, especially those most in need. In the seasons of our lives we should aim to be the bringer of warmth and sunshine, not the cold and darkness. We should be the bringer of Christ into the lives of those that surround us.

You will be happy to know that my most recent trip to New York this last September, was again without snow, yes I am not always the bringer of the snow. Be thankful for our San Diego weather, but realize that with the struggles of those cold winters, comes the beauty of a forest of fall leaves changing colors, and the picturesque scene of a white Christmas, and the bountiful beauty of spring blossoms. So also be thankful for the struggles in your life, as they can be the source of their own unique beauty.

Homily Sunday October 21, 2018 - God of Change

Homily - Sunday 

October 21, 2018 

God of Change

Mark 10:35-45  (Readings) Sit at your right and your left

Deacon David Lewis

Saint Charles Catholic Church, Imperial Beach / San Diego, CA

My journey into the Catholic Church started around 1999 when my wife, son and I first started attending Precious Blood Catholic Church in Chula Vista. 2002 I entered in to RCIA – Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults at Saint Jerome to become Catholic. 5 years later in 2007 I entered formation to become a deacon, and in 2012 I was ordained a deacon to serve here at Saint Charles. 

It has been quite a journey: After three parishes, an annulment of my first, failed, marriage, and the blessing of my current marriage, the Sacrament of confirmation and my first communion, Basic Catechist class, living my Cursillo weekend, five years of formation and classes, with four years of serving hospitals, jails, homeless, and the dying, complete with ordination.  One thing I wasn’t aware of as I went through the doors of Precious Blood that first time, was how much God was going to ask me to change.

 But it hasn’t been all work, and classes… some of the changes are blessings, my marriage has never been better, I have been cigarette free for over ten years after giving up smoking for Lent one year, and when my Dad passed, it was an occasion of hope of eternal life, not so much sorrow and sadness, something that I wouldn’t have understood the same way before my faith journey.

Our religion, our God, is one of change. If we are not on a path towards Him, he wants us to change direction. It might be something as simple as today’s Gospel message, about being called to serve, to exercise humility, to not misuse your authority over your co-workers, or family members, or even those serving us at stores and restaurants, but to serve them. It brought to mind of how my mom would serve. Oh, believe me, her and my dad had authority over us six kids, but she is the greatest example I know of serving those you have authority over. My mom was quick with a spanking when we stepped out of line, but she was always, ALWAYS!, the last to sit down at dinner, and not until every setting was placed, and she made sure every foreseeable need taken care of: salt, pepper, butter, margarine, milk, and Kool-Aid was all brought to the table would she take her seat. She didn’t lord her authority over us, she served us.

Ultimately God wants us to have total comfort with him, and that will happen with His mercy when we pass from this life in to heaven, but in the meantime, for me anyway, Catholicism is uncomfortable. God is still asking me to change, and change makes me uncomfortable. When I get aggravated during my commute, God asks me to change. When I am in a hurry and don’t stop for a moment to recognize those serving me at the grocery checkout, or fast food counter, God asks me to change. When I see someone in need, perhaps someone short of money in front of me in line, God asks me to get uncomfortable and offer to help them. Putting aside my fears that they may get upset at my asking and to ask anyway, or better yet, just do it. When I feared speaking to people about the death of their loved one, God asked me to be uncomfortable anyway.

But God hasn’t asked me to change and then walked away, he has often given me a “warm-up” round. One of my biggest fears used to be dealing with the dying, hoping I would not say the wrong thing at the wrong time.  I have had a couple of moments of God making me uncomfortable like when I was serving in juvenile detention the guards asked that I counsel a boy that just found out during visiting hours that the grandmother he loved, and was the one rock in his life, had passed. I felt so inadequately prepared to help him, but spoke with him anyway. He was upset, but after some prayer, and conversation, he gathered himself together and was able to return to his housing unit. Immediately after that I went back to meeting with the other boys that had turned in chaplain requests. Immediately after I spoke with the boy with the grandma, I met with a boy that was struggling with the death of his little sister, his three year-old little sister, that was shot and killed at his feet as a neighboring gang did a drive-by shooting in retaliation for this boys earlier action actions against that gang. It was because of his actions that this other gang shot at him, killing his innocent little sister … and he was struggling hard with that. God gave me a warm up, but I was still uncomfortable.

Fast forward to hospital ministry, and my first death was a middle aged man that struggled with his own demons in life that had been found in the park the night before unconscious, and the first people on the scene began CPR and kept him alive, but when there was still no sign of brain activity the next day the family decided to unplug the machines that kept him alive. I sat with the family as he lived his last few moments and we prayed together. After finishing I walked out of the one ICU room into the hallway to find a group of about 20-30 people had gathered around the corner room. I asked the nurses if they needed a chaplain, and they said “yes, he is near death” a nurse was in the small room where I was putting on my protective clothing and he explained to me the young man in his early twenties, had a wife and two children and had just gotten the H1N1 flu a couple of weeks ago and was about to pass. We prayed together with those in the room as hew passed and I then went out and prayed with the friends and family gathered in the hallway. God gave me a warmup, but I was still uncomfortable. 

As I serve our community’s dying and the loved ones surrounding them, I am still uncomfortable but less so, but being uncomfortable isn’t a bad thing, if we can imagine for a moment we are play-dough in God’s hands and he is pressing us into the shape, into the person he wants us to be, that bending, stretching and shaping is often accompanied by pain, and discomfort.

Serving God is not about the glory we receive, but in being His servant. As you serve God’s people go outside of your comfort zone, it is likely God will give you the words, and when needed the silence, to serve best. But we are not to take glory in it, but to humble ourselves and make Christ present in those moments he is most needed, giving all glory to God. And like the twelve apostles, some of whom were fishermen summoned  to drop their nets and follow Jesus, others were tax collectors, asked to change their lives and follow Him, let us too, drop those things from our lives that keep us from following Jesus: our pride,  our ambitions, our desires, and our addictions, so that we may become servants of Christ, making sure the needs of others around us are met. For the son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many.

And at the end of Mass “Go forth, glorifying the Lord by your life, even if it makes you uncomfortable.”

Homily Sunday February 18, 2018 - Don't be afraid to ask for help

Homily - Sunday 

February 18, 2018 

Don't be afraid to ask for help

Mark 1:12-15  (Readings) The Kingdom of God is at hand.

Deacon David Lewis

Saint Charles Catholic Church, Imperial Beach / San Diego, CA

There are those moments in life when you have to acknowledge that you are in need of help from someone. Maybe it’s an illness and you seek the help of a doctor, or you need money, so you go to the bank for a loan.

One of those moments for me I was at work I had just finished a site visit fixing a printer for a customer and as I was driving back to the office and I went to turn onto Clairemont Mesa Blvd suddenly my Nissan pickup truck just died, shut right off just as I hit the gas. As I went to start it again, it just kept turning over, but nothing, it wouldn’t start all. So I rolled it backward downhill, against the curb, as I parked it I inventoried my surroundings. And, as luck would have it there was a Nissan dealer directly across the street, I just needed to get my pickup across Clairemont Mesa Blvd to the other side. Well pushing across this insanely busy intersection certainly wasn’t an option. I quickly realized was going to need some help.

But I couldn’t justify calling a tow truck and paying hundreds of dollars for a trip across the street, so knowing that most big brand dealerships don’t usually have a tow truck, I was hoping the small car dealer across the street to my left might.  So, I headed over and their mechanic suggested I check my insurance card to see if I had roadside assistance. Well what do you know, I did. So, I called my insurance company and they dispatched a tow truck. I returned to my pickup and awaited my knight in shining armor in the form of a tow truck driver.

I forgot to mention that besides the two car dealerships on the corners, the corner I was now parked in front of, was a gentlemen’s club, a topless club. GREAT!?!? I thought quickly “Well I am in the middle of Kearney Mesa, at least no one will see me…. Right? No…. As I stood their leaning against my truck, I hear someone call “David”, “David!” I finally identify who and where the person is who was calling my name, it was Mr Stutz, the principal at St Charles School at the time. “You need help?” he asks. “No tow truck is on the way.” and After I explained what happened, and why I was parked in front of a strip club, Mr. Stutz went on his way, and eventually my knight came and snatched up my truck and recommended a shop much cheaper than the dealer, and just down the road from my office in Miramar, where they replaced the timing belt, and the next day I was up and running again.

You see I knew I wasn’t going to get my truck up and running without some help from someone. I knew that alone I wasn’t getting my truck even that short distance across that major road. I knew even with Mr. Stutz’s offer to help we were going to need the pro’s.

But also knew that if I just sat there in my truck, it wasn’t going to fix itself. If I didn’t get out and call someone or go over to the dealership and ask for help, the likelihood of a tow truck coming up and asking if I needed a tow was pretty unlikely. It wasn’t until I got out of the truck and asked for help that the situation started getting better.

Today is the First Sunday of Lent. Since Ash Wednesday we have be in a season in which we should be ever mindful of our need for help. Ever mindful that we are broken down, and in need of a professional. We were reminded of this on Wednesday as we received our ashes, the minister either said “remember, you are dust and to dust you shall return” or “repent and believe in the Gospel” both messages remind us that we are merely humans, and that God still reigns over our lives. And so, we should repent for those times we have not lived up to our God-given potential, those times throughout the last year, and indeed throughout our lives, when we have fallen short. To repent or have remorse and a desire for change for those times that we have not been Christ-like.

Lent is also a season when we should focus on prayer, fasting, and alms-giving. God not only wants us to change our bad habits, but replace them with good ones.

We can pray: If we have been going through our day-to-day routine without giving any credit to the blessings God gives us. When we jump in the car turn the key and it works, when we sit down for a meal, we can take a moment and say, “Thank you God” with a brief prayer. When we wake up in the morning, when we go to bed at night those are great times to converse with God in prayer. Use Lent to spend more time listening to God, perhaps by picking up your Bible and reading some of His Holy Word, or subscribe to a daily catholic reflection on the readings.

We can fast: If we have a food, drink, or even a television show that consumes our thoughts when we go without it, perhaps we are letting that reign over us as King instead of God, and it would be a good item to exercise control over through fasting from that item.

We can give alms: Most of us are blessed with some form of abundance, whether time, talent, or treasure. I encourage you to share that blessing. If you have a particularly hard working, or highly attentive worker at your favorite restaurant, your apartments, or school, particularly one that might be in an under-paid position, bless that person with your gratitude. Give them a compliment, or a token of your appreciation, perhaps even volunteer alongside them.  If you see someone in need, help them, if there is something that you have been noticing has gone neglected in your neighborhood, school, work, or even here at Church use Lent as an opportunity to motivate you to help address it. Visit the sick, the imprisoned, the elderly, serve the homeless, clothe the naked, or even donate the items you no longer use and your clothing that no longer fits to your local charity.

As we go through Lent let us evaluate our lives for those places of brokenness. Seeking to fill them with good. But if our brokenness is one of mortal sin, let us take the opportunity to prepare for the resurrection of our Lord at Easter by making ourselves ready for his coming again. So we are ready when Jesus returns again. During the Lenten season many churches throughout south bay in fact throughout the Diocese, will offer a      communal penance service, ours is tomorrow evening, I encourage to attend to see the professionals. To have you sins forgiven by the best of the best, Christ himself.

The priest won’t come to you to ask you if you need the Sacrament of reconciliation, you have to take the steps to make it to confession. But once you have, you will be once again restored to a state of grace, empowered once again to fight the temptations of Satan, and worthy of eternity in heaven.
Don't be afraid to ask for help.